There are obvious setbacks with having children that are unplanned in the first place much moreso when it is someone that we are not even sure that we like in the first place .. i view and analyze a lot of relationships Only to come to the realiztion that mOst relationships from my perspective in many cases it appears that a lot of people are just tolerating each other as there doe not really seem to be a vested lOve wherein at least from what i have grow accustomed to seeing in my childhood with my own family , i understood sharing , i understood values, character, the place of the man , the place of the woman, as well as their respective counterparts and everything embodying, and surrounding the relationship in it’s entirety .. i understand balance and i respect the place of the Father and the Mother and understand why Mother Nature saw it fit to have these two forces in what eventually gets known as the family structure .. it is what maintains balance within the boundaries that meet with a certain polarity that nuetralizes all outside components that be of the world or nuances thereof the wOrld ..
MEN’S JADED IDEAS
Men have this preconceived notion of ( if i put it down good enough she will be all in ) and in mOst cases this just is not so unless your name is Santiago or maybe belOved .. lol .. but no seriously that tires itself out when the need of the woman dictates more than just putting down.. there is so much more to the complexities of a woman that supercede just putting it down because you can put it down all you want, if you have not put it down in her mind and within those difinitive corridors of what concludes her diversity in being an individual woman with individual needs that are not necessarily replicated ideas, then you simply have no idea how to put it down ..
NOBODY CARES TO KNOW AN INDIVIDUAL PERSON ANYMORE
Men as well as women have to be more adult in their thinking when even approaching sensuality which in turn may lead to sex.. if we are not just being child like and giving in to primal temptations and allowing our uncontrollable desires and lust to take full control of us then we might attune to a more fruitful approach when considering the notion of a relative partner even when it is just Only sexual in nature .. we might want to consider the idea that it is always a possiblity that pregnancy can happen and oftentimes will if the act of copulation is reoccuring therefore in such cases we might want to consider a paertner even i such cases wherein we could see ourselves being able to more than just tolerate the person for the sake of what if’s ..
THINKING LIKE ADULTS
We should all as adults realize that once we make certain desicions that can affect our lives as well as the lives we bring into this world that we might want to presume move forward with a hint of caution .. especially since there is more than just us that become effected if we realize this and act in harmony with the universe then we begin to realize our very special place here and how we in turn affect others with even what might seem and appear to be a very irrelevant thought at the time.. we would then use a bit of foresight to see how we can affect entire ppl entire wOIrlds and entire universes .. basically as was stated a while back when speaking on the Law Of Attraction ..
WE DO NOT THINK
especially when we are younger , we just do not divulge enough insite as to what the outcome could be as opposed to what our perception of it is in at the moment ..
PURPOSES of the SEX
excercise and enjoyment
MAN COMING INTO ALREADY MADE FAMILY STRUCTURE
discipline, guidlines, order, protecting, development,
A LOT OF TIMES THE RESPONSIBILITY IS ON THE MAN because women usually folow our flow ..