the role religion plays in finding a spouse
for one thing i am not looking at this in a way to reference religion from an ideological standpoint, i am looking at this from the perspective of religion being a belief system which someone might ascribe of vital and heightened importance.
Such as your belief can be a religion, music can be a religion, your dress code could be a religion, money to some ppl is a religion, white supremacy is a religion and as with all religions there does not have to be any substantial evidence documentation or verifiable proof in order to maintain the strength or the threshold of any particular religion because that is not what religion is about.. it is about control, because if i can control what you believe regardless of truth then i most assuredly can and will control you. and if i am able to command such power over you why not configure a way in which to allow it into a spectrum of marriage or relationship as this might be subconscious or it could be conscious and by design.
the problem i have with anything involving the term religion is that it most oftentimes will segue into that of someones belief as opposed to something which is factual, and by factual i mean something that can actually be proven by you bearing witness to it and not just hearing it from some other source or person.
So let us stipulate whether or not religion plays a role in marriage at all ? i would most assuredly and certainly say that in most cases that i have observed and or spectated myself, that it is indeed of great importance to a lot of people in that they would prefer that whomever it is they should so choose to involve themselves with should be of the same belief system and therefore of the same religion. now if you will look at my referencing of religion this would also apply because most people from what i recall in relations with a significant other would prefer someone of the same faith and of the same ideologies and of the same thinking .. So therefore you would usually not have a person whom lets say dislikes liberals probably being involved with a person whom is in tune with democracy or is a democrat and vice versa. unless of course there is another agenda however it would not be normal to witness this ..
now let us take a walk over to the English referencing which suggests originally in the sense ” life under monastic vows th ” such as how monks would concede .. and if we look at a french and or Latin reference it suggests an Obligation, Bond, or Reverence ..
So i would say for me the answer to this is I would certainly include religion into my relationship however, it would be in the way of religiously loving and caring for my significant other in the same ways i would anticipate her implementing the same for me in return.. now in regards to including religion or denouncing a significant other because of religion it would be based solely on her as a person , because i take the more apostate approach however i would not just give up a woman with great qualities just because she does not however possess the same religious belief system as i myself.
To a lot of people if we are just referring to the standard by which most of us were taught religion, and the way our perceptions were contoured from early on as children and into and throughout adulthood, (( then i feel that yes in that way as well ppl allow themselves to be swayed by religion when it comes to commencing with a spouse or significant other )). it is Oftentimes used as a threshold for finding a significant other but we have to be careful because then what is the agenda or are we aware that we ourselves might be conflicted and ensuing an agenda without even full well knowing it ? most ppl that believe in their religion would obviously think it wrong of you not to agree with their religious viewpoint simply because it is their BELIEF they have Faith and obtain Credence in that this is what was taught to them and they believe it and most often times as with a lot of religions ppl feel that if they believe in something to be truth regardless of what proofs there are to the contrary .. somehow you should believe as they do. not that this is not OK, however it has to be within reason and we must define the medium and the foundation for such reasoning ..
there are people that believe in the withdrawing or extraction of ones life.. and i certainly do not believe in the slaughtering of animals for any reason other than self defense so would i be likely to be the kind of guy that would date a woman that likes to hunt ? i fear not.. just would not make sense within any reasonable guidelines of practicality ..
so this also goes to say that even if not consciously this could be a very subconsciously driven decision as well.
i understand from a relative standpoint of being like minded however i do gather that she might be limiting herself, lets say i love music and i say i will not date anyone whom is not religiously into music and or a musician therefore
woman is everything however she is a fanatic religiously ..
extreme i just do not have the time and or the tolerance for this as we would already have problems wherein there is a lack of balance this would prove too extreme and the only thing in my life that i want to be extreme is the
now we are dealing with two set of different principles within the helms of indoctrination or at least what has been taught to us that we irreverently accept as truth we are speaking about marriage ms blaze and also religion we might as well allude to politics while we are at it it becomes a thing of continuing a trend that has already been thoroughly propagandized and this would preclude the beginning of the problem itself ..
well i did not hear her say anything about multiple partners nor commitment i just heard her state that she was not going to allow her religion to outsource logic within her understanding of the world that she lives in ..
