Can you be pro black and date outside of your race.. ?
i believe i will have to play both sides of the fence with this one.. because perception as well as individuality, as well as knowledge of one’s self and education play a huge part in how we view this analogy .. you will have an alleged conscious group stating that because you are not with one that is black .. that if you are black.. then there is no way that it can be pro black, and they are right , because it is the way in which pro blackness is perceived by them in the first place.
PERSPECTIVE )) from where they are standing they are looking at it from the spectrum of *) being cancelled out genetically, *) not pro creating .. losing wealth within the economic status quo .. because being pro black is supposed to be this idea of wanting what is best for a a large group or race of persons that are trying to preserve what they have left and cultivate obtaining more within the cross trenches of a white supremacy structure that has complicated things within accumulated state of being wherein we have become kind of immersed in ignorance and kind of dumbed down as to what is actually happening around us and how we are actually being manipulated within the tentacles of any and all media at all times ..
PRESERVE A DYING CULTURE )) so the idea is that this blackness wants to preserve culture, ( wanting what is best for all of us .. standing in the face of propaganda and deception lawlessness and depravity as equality and justice have become the mainstay focus, however should we spin this and invert it .. now we are on the other side of the coin and we are now on the other side of pro black which takes on a new image and a tainted reflection and we without full well knowing at times begin ourselves to campaign for white supremacy without even knowing it
MOST OFTEN TIMES WHITES JUST LOOK AT IT WITH A NEGATIVE UNDERTONE WHEN BLACK IS ADDED IN OPPOSITION TO THEIR NORM …
PRO BLK IS NOT ANTI WHT )) so i would argue that as long as pro blk is not meant do define another kind of supremacy in that we are not advocating the reverse of white supremacy and just calling it something else then yes you can be pro black and still date outside of the race because depending on the kind of relationships you are prone to having with a significant other , it should still want to promote your stance as to what the idea of pro black is trying to accomplish, which is simply put .. PRO BLK not ANTI WHT .. even tho some might argue that in order to be pro black there is no way you can without being anti white ..
DISAGREE )) however i would disagree, because i feel that we have been programmed to kind of exist within a circumference of our own ideas about the ways in which we think ppl and the world exist and what should be and what should not be even as it pertains to other cultures and other ppl somehow taking on the god complex attitude and not really hearing everyone’s point of view and not full well be able to analyze successfully everyone else’s point of view and gauge it within close proximity to logic and perseverance .. the idea here would be that if you are still pro black and dating and or marrying outside of your race, then also educate your significant other and if they are not willing to understand and or be educated as to why you even find it necessary to be pro blk then you are indeed not pro blk until you have moved on to one that would full well understand you and your reasoning ..
we are so brainwashed and indoctrinated in a sense that we hear new music and decide that it does not speak to what we are used to so we negate it, we see new foods or different clothes or different people of different cultures and backgrounds and decide that it is not in conformity to our norm or our understanding and therefore dismiss it usually in its entirety because of how it atones or aligns itself to our comfort zone ..
EDUCATION )) is it possible? yes, will it be difficult? also yes both difficult and possible because of the way the world has shaped our thoughts basically using media using our education system, our radio frequency through radio , this alone is enough to render us incompetent to even be able to divulge such matters as this with an open mind ensconced in tolerance, , understanding, empathy, education, compassion, education, diversity, by the way, did i mention education … ? because if we are not even educated enough to know why ppl feel the way they do about such issues then how could we then form an intelligent well thought out explanation as to why we would oppose something that by most would be precluded as reasonable ..?
give your white persuasion significant other counterpart more than just black sex, give them education because i assure you no matter how politically correct you think you are when those children are born it does not matter that they are bi-racial , they are still blk children by default and the spouse of those children in order to gain a full understanding of their own children will need to fully understand the very different dynamics that play into them being raised as blk in America ..
also the media experience will contour the thinking or lack thereof of what appears to be the very indiscriminate and chaotic thoughts of some blk men whom propose that dealing with a different race of woman was a better alternative for them because to be so called pro black and yet still align yourself with this kind of statement then you are of course misled in your thinking that you are indeed pro blk ..
indeed i do not think that anyone whom wants to exist in pro blackness and wants to stay only within the frame of mind of doing for black youth, having black children, having a black family and building up black wealth, structure, economy, education, politics, away from everyone else, it should not be castigated and or refuted repudiated or objectified for their beliefs because there is nothing wrong with this, as it is not warranting killing off another group of people, or other cultures, it is not showing disdain or hatred of any other groups religions and or cultures, it is just stating that we have a separation, so that we are out of the loop of a supremacist structure that disfigures and contours each and every one of our beliefs and thoughts unless we are truly awaken from this dilemma. the pro black male and female are simply stating that their blackness matters, and is of great importance, and they want to cultivate this within a very ethical means therefore should not be looked down upon .
NATIONALIST )) another problem is you take the very extreme white nationalist groups whom say they want only to ensure the survival of the white race and alleged white culture .. they want to maintain and solidify their white dominance within their belief system that it would be better for them espousing such things as separatism, social Darwinism, Nazism, miscegenation .. which oftentimes will veer us back to more racial ideologies .
HANNAH )) it is much easy to say from the perspective of what is considered the standard of beauty not so much for the black woman whom is always placed at the bottom of this so called structure .. no one said anyone could not date whom they wanted .. the question was can we still be pro black .. all too often we look at the dismay ..
James Earl Jones, Sydney Portier, were actually frowned upon, however what you have is a difference of time meaning the year that was then has expired we are in a new time now so of course it would not matter as much to a younger black generation of this time as we now are seeing Taye Diggs, Michael B Jordan , Michael Colter etc etc. and they also do not have them thrust into their faces as via the whole media spectrum also ..
so allow me to enlighten you more as to why this is so.. already being trusted into the the limelight as the most undesired, the most hated, the most uneducated, the least attractive , these are untruths that society has painted as a whole pandemic and the black woman’s attitude towards it just defines the very sick and twisted system of sorts and they are overtly exhausted mentally as they are frustrated.. so now we have this false illusion of the again politically correct socially accepted fallacy of this ideological angry black woman foaming out of the mouth in all of her disgruntled emotions ..
ALSO )) would the same blk men whom are not opposed and are stating it is OK to date outside of the race willing to be as accepting if their narrative is spun in that now you have a blk woman dating a white person .. ? is she no longer able to called pro black ? and if not what then would beg the difference ..?
Pro Blackness does not itself want to promote ignorance it wants to promote self awareness and self preservation.